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Hallo!!! here I am again updating my accounts..... ^_^

It's fun and overwhelming when you are with your friends, right? Especially the ones who really laugh at your jokes, goes with you whenever,listens to you when you are down, accepts you for who you are and respect you for what you can do and not do. Oh and you will always see them together. You can easily spot groups because they usually wear the same clothes (color of shirt) or they laugh out loud together. They simply jive.

But in an environment like universities, villages or place of work, yeah you can see people getting along pretty well and later on will bloom into a good friendship. But why is it that there will always be someone distant, who's not at par with the others?

After two months of being in a batch.  I am fortunate I was able to find good and real friends. But amongst the said batch there was this one.... Unique. I say "unique" because I know each of us have our own personalities which make us different from the others. Unfortunately for this one it seems that everyone shunned him (is still tho). He keeps on doing things that got other people offended AND he doesn't seem to know 2 words "I'm"  "Sorry".

We later find out that he was trying hard to fit in with the group. And he wasn't aware that most of the things he was doing. And he even said that he gets jealous with some of the guys because they can get along real well with us women and that they can get away with green jokes. (But as I've said different people differs).You see he was imitating the guys in the batch, not knowing that when he's the one doing it, it sends out wrong signals. And being not aware of the weird thing he's doing that can be constituted to harrassment, We honsestly felt ALARMED by it. During serious role playing in training he would say he's Jacking off... or he would say to someone "can I eat you" and he's a touchy type of person and he said he wasnt even aware of it.

We asked assistance from ER about it but after the long talk,  most of his answers where made up stories just to get away with it..why? because he was the first one who sent and IR against us because he said We were ganging up on him and also because my hubby softly punched him in the face (by the way I said softly becuase it didnt even made a bruise or whaterver on his face, it's like nothing happenedand my hubby is 5'11 compared to this guy who's around 5'4 or 5'3) my hubby did that because he said nasty things about me, and I know any man when he gets to hear things like that being said to his loved one definitely he would take action. By the way he made a big deal about it and the guys from our group thinks he''s gay because of that hahahaha. Anyway, it seems like he just simply WON'T learn.. He does'nt listen actually...He still think of himself High and Mighty while in fact he's not. And he simply won't change.. not a bit. He's still back to his old ways.

I am sad for this person that is why I am blogging about it. Because I do want your opinion about him. I want him to change and to be given another chance becuase he might not get just a soft punch on the face next time because of the things he is saying or doing that HE CLAIMS that he is unaware of.

What do you think I can do about it or he can do....

waiting for opinions thanks.

This is so freaking funny.

I was browsing the internet and reading blogs by my friends when I came across this certain post.
The person who wrote this BLOG, claims that (he/she) is very good at writing originals and that (she/he/it) would never be caught dead copying a post or theme by other bloggers and guess what, (she/he/it) actually did... and my blog none the less....

Anyway I honestly do not know if I'll be flattered because of that or pissed because this copycat comments about a lot of other peoples post, - comments about how uneducated someone is because they do not know how to write something in PERFECT ENGLISH and mind you (she/he/it) comments on that but when you get to read (she/he/it) post (duh!!!!) (she/he/it) even use vernacular (Tagalog - Philippine language) it should have been fine had (she/he/it) not CLAIM (she/he/it) wont write a post in tagalog or tagalog and english combine. Not only this person comments about other post but also blog about other post and other people which (she/he/it) claims that she/he/it is FAR better than them and (she/he/it) will blog about how good (she/he/it) is on this and that but in truth (she/he/it) loves the attention (she/he/it)  is getting and thats all (she/he/it) wants because (she/he/it) only have online friends but no real friends..... why do I know all these (his/her/its) online frineds themselves told me about it and the reason why they shunned this poor person is because of the lies she is posting and how she bad mouth other peepes..

so should i get mad or flattered?

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Suddenly I woke up and I find myself faced with one of the biggest decisions in my life..... Getting married.

I guess for most women this is their ultimate wish... to walk down the isle and say the sacred vow together with the person she love most.

In our life we have these fears, a lot of fears don't we? Me, for one would be loosing the person I love, getting them mad or frustrated or making the people important to me unhappy.
We tend to ask for reassurance from the people that surrounds us, whether friends, partners... literally from anyone we encounter everyday, but most of all we, always ask for reassurance from the people we plan to spend our lifetime with...
But when are we actually reassured? When can we say that what the person in front of us is actually telling the truth?
The answer lies to the same person we are asking assurance from, looking in their eyes and actually feeling it, and you know what? It's such an unexplainable feeling, that with so much truth in it, your heart just wants to burst out... and after so many years of wanting to hear it, when I finally did... I just simply want to faint... (and to the people who know me..don't laugh ha... I actually wanted to - it just doesn't look good on me when I do that why I stopped myself ha-ha)
 This is what happened:

My fiance finally pop the question "Will you marry me?" and the silly me was taken aback and thought for a while, not because I don't want to but I am thinking if the person in front of me actually meant what he just uttered.

Does he really want to give up his bachelor status?
Is this just the brink of the moment?
Is this for real?..... (Are you for real? ^_^ )

He smiled, held my hand and looked me in the eye. And he said:

"Yes, I do want to marry you, I want to spend my lifetime with you. I am willing to give up everything for you. I've waited for so long and I do not want to loose you or this chance again.

I love you.I didn't expect that you'll be my wife. Because i thought you're happy with your previous life. But i was wrong,I'm happy now with you my love and hope that our relationship will be strong. I dedicated my life to you now.Happy and I'm ready to take you in church and make a vow. I love you so much and Im always longing for your touch. Maybe you're my perfect match, That's why lord gave you to me as my lover, friend, wife, mother of my son, and even my best friend. Hope that your love to me won't end. I love you Meliza -Sue Arcadio. MWAH! "

I pity those who beg others for attention, little do they know, they're acting more stupid every single day. I pity them to the extent that this would be my first and last blog about them (name names? well you will know who you are because I will personally email this to you because unlike you I do not hide anything from anyone especially my friends, not even my name or the things I love doing).
 
Why do I blog about you...
    In order for you to get a life, to move on, to look at the brighter side of things, and most of all to stop begging attention, love and positive feed backs that you want to generate from your self-centered and nonsense blog entries. And dear, stop commenting about other peoples blog and grammar because as far as I can see, you haven't even perfected the English language yet. And be proud of how you look, do something about your flaws and flaunt your assets and not the other way around. Oh, don't get me wrong, the reason why I read some of your blog entries is because I want to believe that your an intelligent person however I was proven wrong, your not, I don't even think you THINK after all, or maybe you do, unfortunately for you - YOU DO NOT USE CS, you should sometimes, IT'S WORTH IT.

For the past months I have been hearing and reading stuff you say about me, the more I realize how such a looser some people like you can be. Fortunately for you, other people believe the lies and acts you show online, despite the fact that most of them are just in your imagination. Me and my friend talked about you at one point because she just so happen know you because you were both in the same college, and guess what I found out about you, YOU lie about your preference and interests. You had your friends believe that your this kind of woman who is strong willed and street smart but your not. You should be careful because the people you lied at are beginning to get back at you, how was I able to say that, because you played at their feelings and you wasted the trust that they gave you. Oh, and your sib better be careful too, one should watch ones mouth before they speak, because your sib will eventually get into trouble because of that (Just a piece of advice though)

Such sissies you both are, you had everyone believe your little lies that you yourself have held onto that makes you even wonder if its real or not (such foolishness).
Look in the mirror dear and you will see the real you, your a beautiful woman, stop acting like a 4 year old kid living in a doll house full of toys that are meant for boys. I know I'm not suppose to meddle in other peoples business but I honestly can't help it, because I know how to care for other people even if they are not connected to me, especially the ones who deny that they ever need it, sometimes you have to let yourself go and accept the consequences of your stupid actions before it is too late. YOU ARE NOT PERFECT and NEVER WILL YOU BE, but you can still right the things you've done wrong - it only takes guts. You may loose the people you call friends now, but it's worth it, because after you confess everything, that's the time you will know who your real ONLINE friends are. and if they are really true to you, they will meet you up and comfort you. There is such a word as SYMPATHY and EMPATHY, if you are smart enough you'll know what I mean about that and how it is connected to you and your so-called friends.(do you even have personal friends?!! Lolz)

I am not being mean deary, nor would I say I'm saying this because I'm older (definitely not because I am way younger than you) but I wrote this because some people advised me to and they do have a good reason why. Anyway, this is my first and last blog about (so whatever you thought I blogged then wasn't about you at all - STOP BEING PARANOID that will make you uglier) do something about your looks dear, you are an attractive being once you put a conscious effort to do something about it, I am not that attractive as well but I make it a point that I do not look like a complete rag in front of anyone. And tell your friends to mind their own business because I know they read my blogs as well and get hurt by some of it but it's not about them as well. YOu may deny it to the world but remember you can't deny it to yourself.

Well gtg, have a great day and have a good life ahead of you..... move one because someone already did... when I finally saw LOVE and Glitter in my man's eyes..... ^_^

Hello everyone, My name is Jessica and I'm new to Vox and to the group.
I love to write short stories and poems, so I thought the writing prompts might
be a really great exercise. I hope to "hone" my skills a little

To be honest, I have never really "blogged" anywhere but on my networking
site. So I'm really looking forward to getting some feedback on my musings..lol.

I also really enjoy hearing what other people have to say. And I love to read.
So please, share your postings with me whenever you can.

I am sure I will love reading your blogs. If you have a second, please feel free to drop me a line.
I'd be happy to add you to my neighborhood!

Looking forward to getting to know you all

Jess

Trust has always been number one for me in a relationship and often times that's what I look for in a man.. and most of us do, we look for someone who we can trust, who we trust that would never find someone else, who will love no one but us, who will never lie, someone... let's say.... close to perfect...
while I'm looking for that quality in a man, I suddenly asked the same question to myself....
......am I THAT trust worthy? have I been honest? have I ever lied just to save myself from pain?

just before Christmas I came close encounter with my own little doodledo... I lied,
well I didn't say it's the first time but in this case, I was in pain because I never thought it would be that painful...knowing that I never had anyone else nor did I have two men in my life but I just lied I ever had one  before I met my fiance...

All is well now between us, (and soon will be married, don't worry I'l send invitation to my real friends) going back...
 I came to realize that we often lie, white lie in particular to save someone or our ass and most say IT'S OKAY but when reality bites - IT'S NOT ACTUALLY....

A lie is still a lie, whether it's about telling someone you don't bump yourhead to the walls of your house or on the floor when begging for someone to love you again, and saying that THAT ACT is so hilarious and YOU WOULDN'T DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT IN YOUR LIFE TIME
(hmm.. but the again a lot saw you do it hehhe...anymway)
 just to save yourself from shame and humiliation from your friends who will find out your a freaking cry baby because they know your for being a strong person while in fact your not and that your a liar

...
A lie is still a lie, whether tell your BF that YOU NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND just for him not to leave you while in fact, it's your EX-GIRLFRIEND who told your BF that she was your GF because your a butch. (hey, whats wrong in being a lesbian, right? I'm sure your bf then would understand)
...but then again we lied...

A lie is still a lie, whether we tell our parents that we are this all high and mighty person and that we're like VIP's in our work place or company because you want your parents to be proud of you, while in fact your just a cast out secretary who's trying to find some attention from your co-workers.(your parents will support you though, even if your a looser)
.....but then again we lied...

A lie is still a lie, whether we tell someone I have a GF/BF while in fact your married just to gain popularity and admiration from other people, while in fact no one will even like you because for a star your not even good looking  and that your a BAD LIAR...
(you will still gain good friends though have you not lied)
.....but then again you lied...

A lie is still a lie, whether you want tos ave yourself from being the talk of the town because you accuse someone of being a liar while in fact you very well know that YOUR THE ONE WHO IS LYING and your doing that to shift the attention to other people than them talking about you because your the one who is actually at fault.you did that even if it's in the expense of others because you want your image squeeky clean, but your heart?...that I don't know..
(you don't even know that that person is actually telling the truth..karma to you that is.)
...but then again you lied..

A lie is still a lie you know, and I know that for a fact, I lied a lot of times before and a lot of people lied to me as well, we all have our own share of lies, but it's the karma that we differ from each other, you see, when karma finally comes knocking that's when we realize that we shouldn't have done what we did, but more often than not, it's already too late...

A lie is still a lie you know...karma to you Mr and Ms high and Mighty (in their dreams) LOLZ ^_^

Oh by the way, you tell other people stuff about me and you also tell them that you've moved on and that you don't care about me anymore, but why are you affected now with my blogs and the things I do? OOOpppssss, hold it!! your even reading my blog entry (Lolz) you know what you may think this is all about you, you should think again, your not important to me to blog about you this is a general thingy so stop being paranoid (LOLZ)

....see just by reading this blog your lying also to yourself and telling yourself that your not any of what I mentioned (self denial tsk tsk poor you), you might even tell your friends or blog about it...remember A lie is still a lie....

Set yourself free (use carefree, its worth it - wow poise..) huwat!! LOLZ going back..

Set yourself free, BE HONEST to yourself and all else will follow.....

( i didn't re-read this nor edit this hehehe sorry...)LOLZ ^_^